I carried it for 33 years before I learned to put it down.
For most of my high school life, I was pack-bullied every day for four years. The chants. The messing with my belongings. The daily humiliation. All while hiding something I couldn't name. That I was gay. In a country town in the 80s where that wasn't safe to be.
I married at 24 to outrun it. I stood at the altar thinking: why am I doing this? I made it to Senior Executive/VP level at 30 while trembling so badly at networking events that I'd fake phone calls in corners just to avoid small talk.
I didn't begin to heal until I was 30. I didn't feel like myself until I was almost 40.
That's not a sob story. It's a map.
Because the people I work with aren't broken, they're carrying things that were handed to them before they had no choice in the matter. Fear of rejection. Anger with no clear address. Loneliness in a crowd. Relationships that repeat. A version of themselves they can sense but can't quite reach.
I know that terrain from the inside. And I know the way out...not because I studied it, but because I lived it, and then spent a decade learning how to guide others through it.
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